You want to believe that you can be a great mom and find your purpose beyond motherhood BUT...


You’re not really sure if the kind of balanced life you dream of even exists. You know, the kind of life where you get to be present as a mom and pursue your dreams outside of motherhood too.

And even if it does exist, you have no clue how to create it for yourself. Plus the time and energy you have to find fulfillment beyond motherhood are pretty limited these days.  

So instead of going after your dreams, you’ve put them on hold. You’ve decided to wait until life isn’t so busy or until the kids aren't so demanding or until it feels like the right time to make a change and do something for you.

But in those moments when you’re really honest with yourself, you admit that this whole waiting thing is not working for you. You’re actually feeling pretty lost and stuck and afraid that your time will never come.

What you really want to believe is that your time is now.

And what you really need is someone who can help you find fulfillment beyond motherhood so you can find yourself again and show your kids what’s possible when you go after your dreams. 


I’m Ashley Gartland and I help moms find their path and purpose outside of motherhood – and do it in a way that doesn’t add to their stress or overwhelm. Because I know you can be a great mom and lead a balanced life as a bold, inspiring woman too.

Why am I so passionate about this work? Because I've been in your shoes and I know what it's like to feel like you have to choose between motherhood and your purpose.

A few years ago, I was a new mom who wasn't feeling engaged with my career anymore. But I didn't think it was the right time to chase my dreams. So I decided to wait and dedicate myself to motherhood. But the truth was I felt lost and uninspired. And when baby number two arrived, I knew I had to make a change.

That's when I finally admitted I wanted something MORE.

Now I have a fulfilling career as a life coach. It allows me the flexibility to be a present mom and it provides me with the opportunity to do inspiring, life-changing work that makes it worth it to spend time away from my daughters. 

I've found my purpose helping other moms find their purpose. And in doing so, I've created a beautiful, balanced life for myself that allows me to be an engaged mom and an individual too.

Now I want to help you do the same. 


One on One Coaching

Imagine this...

Three months from now, you know exactly what your purpose beyond motherhood is. And not only that, you also have a plan in place to help you pursue that purpose and create a balanced life for yourself. 

Gone are the days when you woke up feeling exhausted, sad, guilty and afraid. Because now that you've done the self-reflection and the work and now that you've gotten the support you deserve, you feel motivated again. You feel confident. Inspired. Alive.

You feel like you've reclaimed your identity beyond "mom." You feel like you've found yourself again.

You have a vision for your future and a plan to help you create an abundant life for your family and yourself. You've discovered your innate gifts and you're already using them to make a difference. You have flexibility and the freedom to make an impact in the world AND be the kind of mom you want to be. You have plenty of support. You even have time for self-care.

It might feel like a stretch now but that kind of bold, balanced life is entirely possible.

But it's hard to get there without perspective and support. 

Fortunately, you don't have to do it alone. You'll get all the perspective and support you desire when you work with me one on one.


Each 1X1 Coaching program IS DESIGNED TO HELP MOMS LIKE YOU:

  • Learn how to stop waiting for the right time to come to take care of your needs.
  • Give yourself permission to prioritize YOU and explore your passions now.
  • Discover what your purpose is and learn how to pursue it without adding more stress to your life.
  • Shake the "mom guilt" and other dream-stealing emotions that prevent you from living out your purpose beyond motherhood.
  • Create a balanced life that allows you to be an engaged mom and an inspiring woman making an impact in the world.


Ready to get started?

Click the button below to book a free call and find out if one one one coaching is right for you.

*Investment in one on one coaching ranges from $997-$1997. (Monthly installments available upon request.)

THE FOCUS FOR Your Coaching SessionS

I believe that every woman - and every woman's situation and challenges as a mother - are different. So you won't get a cookie cutter approach when you work with me as your personal coach. What will you get? Customized, one-on-one coaching that meets you where you're at and that addresses your unique needs. 


SOME OF THE TOPICS WE Can Focus On During Our Time Together INCLUDE:

  • Giving yourself permission to prioritize you.
  • Dealing with dream-stealing emotions like fear, mom guilt and self-doubt.
  • Overcoming limiting beliefs and feelings of "not enoughness."
  • Cultivating confidence in yourself and your ideas.
  • Building a balanced life.
  • Reclaiming your identity beyond "mom."
  • Finding time to pursue your calling and be a present mother without adding to your stress or overwhelm.


Whatever it is that you need to discuss, work through, brainstorm, question or get perspective on, I'm here to help. And, I'm ready to offer you all the support and resources you need - and deserve - so you can be the kind of mom you want to be and the kind of woman you dream of being too.


"The best coaches are genuinely curious about others and listen deeply for what is and isn't being said. Doing that allows them to ask great thought-provoking questions. Ashley does this beautifully. Her blend of skills and experience make her "the coach" for moms who are stuck on a hamster wheel but want to get out on the open road and live their life."

-Christie Artis, Portland, OR

"I was reluctant to talk with a coach at first, even though Ashley came highly recommended. I’m a writer who was struggling with mom guilt and avoiding writing at all costs - I couldn’t allow myself the time or the space I needed to do my own thing. I’m also English and we have a very buttoned-up mentality, so it took me a while to come around to the idea of life coaching. I cannot tell you how pleased I am that I did. Ashley is wonderful, an absolute game changer. She helped me become more visible as a writer and I’ve had some amazing work opportunities come my way.” 

-Gemma Clarke Sands, NYC

 “When I talked with Ashley, I felt like I was lost in a very dark place. My pre-motherhood identity had vanished and I had no idea what could or should take its place. I was exhausted and sad and I couldn't get a foothold on my new life. I was just spinning in my own head and I felt like I was struggling for air. 

It was validating to have Ashley listen to my challenges, give me feedback when appropriate and ask great questions that took me deeper than I could have gone by myself. I feel very lucky to have done this work early on since I know many mothers wait years to find this space for themselves."

-Anna Laman, Asheville, NC


If you’re ready to find your purpose beyond motherhood, I'm here to help you take the first step – and all the steps after that. So let’s start the conversation so you can discover how you can be a great mom AND find fulfillment beyond motherhood too.

It starts with one phone call. All you have to do is click the button below to set up a time to talk. 

*Investment for one on one coaching ranges from $897-$1795. (Monthly installments available upon request.)